docs: update stale dotfiles/nixos flake paths 📝

Stage 4f cleanup. The flake moved from ~/dotfiles/nixos/ to ~/dotfiles/
in 88c5139; docs and install scripts hadn't been refreshed. Point all
rebuild / flake references at the new root:

- AGENTS.md, README.md, server-quickstart.md, docs/server-installer-usb.md,
  docs/sunken-ship-wifi.md, nixos/readme.md — rebuild command paths.
- scripts/nixos-server-install.sh — auto-detect now looks for flake.nix
  at repo root (was nixos/flake.nix).
- scripts/post-install-provision.sh — first-rebuild hint path.

`nixos/hosts/<host>-hardware.nix` and friends stay where they are —
host-specific NixOS modules still live under nixos/; only the flake
entry-points + sops/ + vars/ + lib/ + modules/ + flake-modules/ moved.

nixos/readme.md rewritten to reflect the split (flake at root, per-host
modules under nixos/).

server-quickstart.md

@@ -44,7 +44,7 @@ Optional: `services.openssh.settings = { PasswordAuthentication = false; PermitR
 
 ```bash
 sudo nixos-rebuild switch
-# or: sudo nixos-rebuild switch --flake /path/to/dotfiles/nixos#hostname
+# or: sudo nixos-rebuild switch --flake /path/to/dotfiles#hostname
 ```
 
 Then from your main machine: `ssh danny@myserver`